Okay, be honest.
You want to buy your first home. And you’re already lost.
How much can you borrow? What’s a deposit actually for? What’s this “Mortgage in
Principle” thing everyone keeps mentioning?
Breathe.
You don’t need to become a mortgage expert. You just need to do things in the right order.
Let’s go.
Step 1: Look at your money. All of it.
Before you touch a single property listing, get honest with yourself.
Write down:
Your income
Your partner’s income, if you’re buying together
Your savings
Any loans or credit cards
Car finance
Student loans
Your normal monthly spending
Step 2: Understand your deposit
There’s also:
Solicitor fees
Surveys
Mortgage fees
Moving costs
Property tax, where it applies
Furniture and setup costs
So don’t dump every penny of your savings into the deposit. You’ll need a cushion.
Step 3: Check your credit report
Step 4: Work out roughly what you could borrow
Your basic salary
Overtime
Bonuses
Commission
Self-employed income
Existing loans
Credit card balances
Car finance
Kids and childcare costs
The mortgage term
Interest rate assumptions
Step 5: Set your real property budget
Simple maths first:
Mortgage + deposit = your budget.
£180,000 mortgage + £20,000 deposit = £200,000 to spend.
But just because you can borrow that much doesn’t mean you should.
Ask yourself: what does that monthly payment actually do to your life?
Because on top of it, you’ve now got council tax, energy bills, insurance, repairs,
maintenance. All of it, yours now.
Being approved for an amount and being comfortable with that amount — two very different
things.
Step 6: What is a “Mortgage in Principle”?
You’ll hear a few names for this:
Mortgage in Principle (MIP)
Agreement in Principle (AIP)
Decision in Principle (DIP)
Same idea. It’s a lender saying “roughly, based on what you’ve told us, we might lend you
this much.”
Key word: might.
It’s not a real offer. It’s a starting point. The lender still needs to check everything properly
— including the actual property you want to buy
Step 7: Meet the team
Buying a home means suddenly dealing with a bunch of new people. Here’s who’s who:
Mortgage adviser — helps you find and arrange the right mortgage.
Estate agent — works for the seller, not you.
Solicitor or conveyancer — handles all the legal stuff.
Surveyor — checks the property isn’t hiding problems.
Mortgage lender — the one actually giving you the money, and checking you and the
property are both good bets.
Know who does what, and the whole process gets way less confusing.
Step 8: Now go look at houses
Once you know your budget, your deposit, and roughly what you can borrow — now you’re
ready.
The journey from here usually looks like:
Offer → Offer accepted → Mortgage application → Valuation → Legal work → Mortgage offer
→ Exchange → Completion
Where you’re buying in the UK changes some of the details. So double-check the process
for your situation.
Don’t try to learn it all at once
Quick-fire FAQs
Do I need a mortgage before I start viewing houses? No. But knowing your rough budget
stops you falling in love with places you can’t afford.
Should I talk to a mortgage adviser before house hunting? Yes, especially if your
finances aren’t totally straightforward.
How long does this whole thing take? No fixed answer. The mortgage bit is just one piece
— surveys, legal work, chains, all of it adds time.
What’s the very first thing I should do? Look at your income, your deposit, your spending,
and your credit report. That’s your starting point.